When it comes to resolutions, it turns out relationships really matter.
Every year around this time, we create lists—sometimes really long ones—of all the things we want to change about ourselves. The typical goals are usually quite internally focused—to the point where they push us away from others. They're also often achievement-based. Whether it's exercising more, reading more books or developing a new hobby, resolutions rarely help us develop more meaningful friendships. I wonder if these goals really help us become better people.